You probably have seen girls squirting in one or two porn videos and might be wondering how to make your partner squirt the same way. Learning how to make a girl squirt will surely give you and her an unforgettable experience.
But first of all, what is squirting? There are so many myths and misconceptions when it comes to squirting or reaching a squirting orgasm. When a girl reaches a squirting orgasm, she releases a clear and odorless fluid from her vulva or the urethra. G-spot is a key here if you really want her to reach the point of squirting. If you are confused about what G-spot is, G-spot is actually a part of the clitoral system that is located inside the vaginal canal. This means that when you rub or stimulate the G-spot, you are actually stimulating her clitoris, which ultimately provides pleasure for her during sexual activity.
A pretty common misconception about squirting is that some people think that the fluid released by squirting is pee. It is easy to believe this, especially if you have seen porn videos of this nature. While the fluid contains some contents that are in urine, squirting consists of its own fluid. It is surely confusing, but squirting is not equal to peeing. During sexual activity, a girl might be getting an urge to pee, and for some people, this can be quite uncomfortable. However, it is important not to associate this sensation with reaching a squirting orgasm.
Is squirting the same as female ejaculation?
Squirting is definitely a form of ejaculation; however, there is another way how females ejaculate. While squirting looks like a gush of fluid being released from the urethra, the other type of female ejaculation consists of a milky white fluid in the vulva area. Skene’s glands produce this fluid during sexual activity. What are Skene’s glands? Well, in simple words, skene’s glands are known as the female prostate. So, squirting is undoubtedly a type of female ejaculation, and it is possible to experience both types during sexual activity.
What does G-spot do?
G-spot is pretty important if you really want to learn how to give her a squirting orgasm. Most squirts occur when you rub on the G-spot. If you are not experienced with locating the G-spot, it will take a bit of training to get used to it. You can locate the G-spot with your fingers. Insert a finger (More comfortable for her if it is lubed!) into her vaginal canal until you feel a textured wall 2 to 3 inches deep into the vagina.
How to give her a squirting orgasm?
Now that you know what a squirt is and whatnot, it is time to focus on how to make her squirt. Before you dive into the tutorial, it is worth noting that not all women are able to squirt. With that in mind, you can proceed to give her a squirting orgasm, and if she does not reach squirting, she will still have a super pleasurable orgasm during the sexual activity.
Ease the tensions
The first thing to consider when you are planning to give a squirting orgasm is to ease the tension of the lady. She has to be comfortable and free from tension and stress to reach an orgasm. Let’s face it; nobody is going to have a good time if they are stressed or anxious. So the key is to keep her relaxed the whole time. This means you need to communicate with her about her fears, anxieties as well as tension before proceeding into any sexual activity.
As much as getting her prepared, it is important to prepare yourself as well. This includes both mental and physical preparation. You should come to terms with the fact that she might not squirt the first time you try or never at all. So it is better not to expect it to have a good and enjoyable time for both of you. After all, this is all about pleasure and not about impressing your partner. You also need to follow hygienic steps to keep you and her from developing infections as well. Wash your hands well before and after the activity, and remember to trim your nails to avoid any cuts in her vagina.
Get her aroused
She is not ready for anything sexual if she is not properly aroused. Start your way with lots of foreplay to get her in the mood. Getting her aroused not only gets her in the mood but also wet and hard in the vital parts like the vaginal canal, vulva, and clitoris. Pay attention to her mood and the growing sexual tension between the two of you.
How to squirt?
Now that you are all prepared, it is time to look into the techniques. Insert your ring finger (Make sure she is wet or lube your finger beforehand) inside her vagina till you reach her G-spot. G-spot has a rubber-like texture, so you will be able to tell the difference between the vaginal wall and the G-spot. After locating the G-spot, gently push it while paying attention to her reaction. If it is positive, keep pushing and rubbing her G-spot for up to a minute or two. At this point, you can proceed to insert two fingers (Middle finger and ring finger). Your fingers should be curled towards the pubic bone as you push the G-spot.
The pressing technique – This is a simple technique you can try to make her squirt. You can press her G-spot with pressure to build up the sexual tension. Pay attention to how she likes it, whether fast or slow.
The rubbing technique – This technique involves you pressing on her G-spot and start rubbing it in a circular motion to intensify the pleasure.
The shaking technique – This technique has your fingers firmly placed in her G-spot. Now, instead of using your finger to apply pressure, use your whole arm and raise and lower rapidly.
It is quite likely that one of these techniques or a combination of all the techniques will make her squirt! However, if it did not try on the first try, you can always practice on giving her a pleasurable and squirting orgasm.